Sweetbitter by Stephanie Danler: Don’t Let the Cover Deceive You

Sweetbitter, Stephanie DanlerFiction
Released May 24, 2016
368 Pages
Bottom Line: Read it.
Affiliate Link: Buy from Amazon
Source: Purchased (Publisher: Knopf)

Plot Summary

When twenty two year-old Tess comes to New York City looking to start her adult life, she lands a job as a “backwaiter” at a fictional Union Square restaurant that sounds a lot like Union Square Cafe…and experiences an unimaginable education in food, wine, life, and love.

My Thoughts

I’d been hearing incredible things about this debut novel from bloggers I trust (Catherine at Gilmore Guide to Books and Tara at It’s Tara Leigh) and, with my love of food and interest in the NYC food scene, I was fairly confident I would love it too. And, I did. It’s only my fourth 5 star book of the year! This is one of those books where the cover and premise could deceive you into thinking you’re getting “brain candy”. What you’re actually getting is a smart, exquisitely written coming of age story set in the rough and tumble world of top-notch restaurants. The story of a young girl searching for her place in the world.

For me, the success of Sweetbitter is entirely due to Danler’s storytelling style and writing. It’s all about the way she writes about…well, anything.

She writes about food: she doesn’t just describe flavors, rather she talks about a food’s meaning and purpose.

At that point I couldn’t remember the orchards, the blossoms, the life of the apple outside the city. I only knew that it was a humble fruit, made for unremarkable moments. It’s just food, I thought as I finished it, core and all. And yet it carries us into winter. It holds us steady.

She writes about the act of eating.

Once you admit you want things to taste like more or better versions of themselves – once you commit to flavor as your god – the rest follows. I started adding salt to everything. My tongue grew calloused, overworked. You want the fish to taste like fish, but fish times a thousand. Times a million. Fish on crack. I was lucky I never tried crack.

She writes about working in the restaurant business.

What I didn’t see was that the time had severe brackets around it. Within those brackets nothing else existed. Outside of them, all you could remember was the blur of a momentary madness. Ninety percent of us wouldn’t even put it on a resume. We might mention it as a tossed-off reference to our moral rigor, a badge of a certain kind of misery, like enduring earthquakes, or spending time in the army.

She writes about wine (and makes it interesting even to someone who doesn’t care at all about the intricacies of wine).

Terroir. I looked it up in The World Atlas of Wine in the manager’s office. The definition was people talking around it without identifying it. It seemed a bit far-fetched. That food had character, composed of the soil, the climate, the time of year. That you could taste that character. But still. An idea mystical enough to be seductive.

She writes about 9/11, giving me goosebumps and a lump in my throat.

I was pouring milk into my cereal, I looked down for one second…
I was asleep, I didn’t even feel the impact.
A tide of people moving up the avenues on foot.
Blackness.
Sometimes it feels too soon.
It’s our shared map of the city.
Then the sirens, for days.
We never forget, really.
A map we make by absences.
No one left the city. If you were here, you were temporarily cured of fear.

She writes about dating/love in a way that didn’t make me want to vomit from the cheesiness. There is romance in this book, but not the traditional kind…more of the painful, unhealthy kind reminiscent of Tender.

His certainty always disabled my thoughts, like in this moment when I searched for my words, for my anger, and found a void where my reason had been.

She writes about living in NYC.

Remember this, I told myself. Remember how quiet today is. I had the newspaper, which I would keep for years, and I was on my way to lunch in Chinatown by myself. As I contemplated the skyline this double feeling came to me as one thought, pressing in from either side of the bridge, impossible for me to reconcile: It is ludicrous for anyone to live here and I can never leave.

Grab this book immediately if you’re in the market for a somewhat lighter read that’s smart and well-done, but especially if you’re a foodie, spent some of your young adult life in NYC, and/or work or have worked in a restaurant. And, it’s going on my 2016 Summer Reading Guide!

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36 Comments

  1. Drawing a line to Tender is a quick way to get me interested in a book! Glad you had another great experience with this one 🙂

    Posted 6.9.16 Reply
    • Sarah Dickinson wrote:

      It’s a different style than Tender, but a similar type of screwed up, unhealthy relationship that reminded me of the one in Tender.

      Posted 6.9.16 Reply
  2. I’m reading this book now and loving it! We’ve marked several of the same passages.

    Posted 6.9.16 Reply
    • Sarah Dickinson wrote:

      Yay – so glad!

      Posted 6.9.16 Reply
  3. Everyone is loving this one. I’ve got to get my hands on a copy.

    Posted 6.9.16 Reply
    • Sarah Dickinson wrote:

      Yes, you do!

      Posted 6.9.16 Reply
  4. I never would have picked up this book from the cover, or even the synopsis really. But all the raving has my super interested now so I have it on hold at the library. Glad you racked up another 5-star read… I think I still only have one of those this year so far… (not counting Harry Potter or The Raven Cycle rereads, because that’s cheating).

    Posted 6.9.16 Reply
    • Sarah Dickinson wrote:

      Yay! And I initially passed on requesting a review copy for the same reasons. Sometimes re-reads are just what you need!

      Posted 6.9.16 Reply
  5. Oh I’m glad another person loves this one. I have it on hold at the library and every review I read about just makes me more excited to finally get my hands on it.

    Posted 6.9.16 Reply
    • Sarah Dickinson wrote:

      Hope you love it!

      Posted 6.9.16 Reply
  6. Naomi wrote:

    Yup. I have to read this one.
    I don’t know what I would do without book bloggers now – there have been a lot of books I would have missed because of the cover – but not anymore!

    Posted 6.9.16 Reply
    • Sarah Dickinson wrote:

      Haha – me too apparently!

      Posted 6.9.16 Reply
  7. Amanda wrote:

    Excellent! I way too excited to see other people loving this book. I honestly can’t wait to read it again.

    Posted 6.9.16 Reply
    • Sarah Dickinson wrote:

      I had a blast going through all the quotes to figure out what to share…a kind of mini re-read since I’d marked so dang many!

      Posted 6.9.16 Reply
  8. That cover is terrible on many levels, but I will definitely try the book!

    Posted 6.9.16 Reply
    • Sarah Dickinson wrote:

      Hope it works for you!

      Posted 6.9.16 Reply
  9. Thanks! Now on order. Cheers from Carole’s Chatter

    PS It would be good if you linked this up with Books You Loved: June

    Posted 6.9.16 Reply
    • Sarah Dickinson wrote:

      I did – thanks!

      Posted 6.9.16 Reply
  10. I’ve really enjoyed the pages that my online library book club has sent to me this week. Another reason I jumped ahead and bought this one.

    Posted 6.9.16 Reply
    • Sarah Dickinson wrote:

      Yay – hope you love it! And that library thing is pretty awesome – wish mine had one!

      Posted 6.9.16 Reply
  11. Catherine convinced me to read this one too. But the cover? It’s got to go.

    Posted 6.10.16 Reply
    • Sarah Dickinson wrote:

      I originally didn’t request an ARC of this one because of the cover…despite the premise being 100% up my alley!

      Posted 6.11.16 Reply
  12. Michelle wrote:

    It sounds like I need to grab a copy of this as soon as possible!

    Posted 6.10.16 Reply
    • Sarah Dickinson wrote:

      Yes, yes you do!

      Posted 6.11.16 Reply
  13. Trish wrote:

    Someone mentioned this to me as a more adult version of We Were Liars, which I haven’t read yet (was that you?). From all of the buzz I’ve been hearing about it lately, I’m definitely interested in grabbing a copy. And love your post title–hate when the cover just doesn’t seem to match the tone of a book.

    Posted 6.10.16 Reply
    • Sarah Dickinson wrote:

      OOHH! No – I definitely didn’t say that, but I know what you’re thinking about. I said Bittersweet by Miranda Beverly-Whittemore was a more adult version of Liars. This one literally has zero similarities to Liars….and is SO much better!

      Posted 6.11.16 Reply
  14. Catherine wrote:

    Brava! Well done at showing how evocative Danler’s prose is. The quote about living in NYC is perfect. I hd to leave and yet, I’ve always wanted to go back.

    I’m already ready for her next book!

    Posted 6.11.16 Reply
    • Sarah Dickinson wrote:

      Can we force her into starting that next one immediately?! And I can’t say I fully agree with the “can never leave” part of that quote, but know tons of other people that feel exactly that way. I do think living there forever changes you.

      Posted 6.11.16 Reply
  15. This one sounds so excellent, definitely going to be on my list for later this summer!

    Posted 6.12.16 Reply
  16. Andi wrote:

    Awesome review! That’s impressive that it hit 5-star status. Really excited to give this one a go.

    Posted 6.12.16 Reply
  17. Athira wrote:

    I’m suddenly seeing this one everywhere. I wouldn’t have picked this one if I chanced upon it so I’m glad I read your review. Sounds fabulous! And that passage about the apple had me sold.

    Posted 6.12.16 Reply
  18. Tara wrote:

    Thanks for the shout-out, Sarah! I’m so glad you enjoyed this one; I can’t stop talking about it!

    Posted 6.13.16 Reply
    • Sarah Dickinson wrote:

      Me either – I’m recommending it all over the place!

      Posted 6.13.16 Reply
  19. Hi! I’m reading this next. Glad to hear you loved this.

    Posted 6.23.16 Reply
    • Sarah Dickinson wrote:

      Yay – I hope you love it too!

      Posted 6.23.16 Reply

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